I am back. For good this time. In the past I have tended to be an affiliate that is everywhere. All over the forums, chatting to everyone on IM. Pumping out work like there’s no tomorrow. Then I drop off the face of the Earth. I have let my personal situation get the better of me and dictate my business life.
I wanted to make this post about being a business man. I capitalised the word “man” for a reason. Sometimes when we are faced with adversity we forget to be man. Let me give you a quick scenario to explain what I’m talking about.
I made a transaction months ago and never came good on my end of the bargain. The guy respectfully requested a refund and my natural instinct was to fight it. In sending my 2nd last email I thought to myself. Why am I fighting this? I am in the wrong.
I sent him a refund and apologised for my poor business relations. The money was pretty insignificant but that isn’t the point. When you do a deal, stick by it. If for some reason you can’t do that, fix it. Don’t fight it. Don’t come up with excuses. Be a man.
All too many times I am witness to people coming up with lame arse excuses. They’ll say “oh but I didn’t know.” Who cares mate. Do what is right.
Some Words of Wisdom
Since returning to work and completing tasks that have been hanging over my head for a long time it has made life a whole lot easier. Even though I still have a lot to go and most of the things I’ve done aren’t “actual work” they really did need to be done.
From what I’ve learnt over the past couple of months I can strongly say that I will be adopting a “do it now” approach. All too often I say I will do something and then never get around to it, even though my intentions are all in good will.
To be a business man, you need to be a man.
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Glad to see you’re back to business, mate! I missed your posts here and on PAL. Any chance to meet you at an affiliate conference sometime next year?
I’m going to be moving to Cananda next year, so hopefully they’ll have a Candian meetup? There is a conference in Sydney in March so I will attend that.
I will have to have a closer look at what is on next year. Which one(s) are you attending?
Canada? Is that a permanent thing?
Good luck with the move anyway, and good to have you back.
Yeah going to go for at least 6 months I think and then see how things are going. Should be fun! If all things go well I’ll either move to USA or UK afterwards.
I knew you’d choose Canada since us Cannucks obv rock. I presume your going out west…if so let me know if you make your way to Ontario…
and what is with all the “MAN” talk…come on now be politically correct?
Hey Kaus,
I will be moving to Edmonton, so I guess that makes me an Oiler?! I will have to check a map to see how far away you are.
Beers are definitely on though, or perhaps a wine for you?
ahh your moving near Aidan.. If I were you… meaning kid free I would take the opportunity to travel across Canada. I havent done it obv but anyone I’ve talked to who’s been out west, east and up north says its a must. Totally different parts of the country..
Yep will do as much traveling as I can. Will be crashing with Aidan for a while so he can show me around.